Joseph "Joe" David Bales

Joseph “Joe” David Bales, born on December 8, 1963, in Marion, Virginia, passed away on December 31, 2024, in Danville, Kentucky. Known for his warm smile and knack for making people laugh, Joe lived a life full of love, curiosity, and hard work that left an indelible mark on everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.

Joe was the son of the late Walter Robert and Gladys Surber Bales and grew up in Marion, Virginia. From a young age, he demonstrated a remarkable work ethic, helping his father with their family’s catering business. That early experience laid the foundation for a lifetime of entrepreneurial pursuits. Throughout his career, Joe operated numerous small businesses and frequently worked multiple jobs at once, embodying a relentless drive and dedication to providing for his family and community.

A proud graduate of East Tennessee State University and a member of the Theta Chi chapter of Sigma Nu, Joe exemplified the fraternity’s principles of Love, Honor, and Truth. His son, Michael Bales, followed in his footsteps as a legacy member of Sigma Nu, a bond they both cherished. During his time with Sigma Nu, Joe held several leadership roles, including serving as Candidate Educator, where he helped mentor new members and instill the fraternity’s core values.

Joe had a unique ability to connect with people—he never knew a stranger. His welcoming spirit and sharp sense of humor made him the life of any gathering. Whether it was through a well-timed joke or a kind word, Joe had a way of making everyone feel seen and valued.

His passions were as diverse as his personality. A loyal fan of the Tennessee Volunteers and Washington Commanders, Joe loved football season and never missed an opportunity to cheer on his teams. He also found joy in golfing and fishing, particularly at his beloved Bear Creek in Virginia, where he could often be found casting a line for “horny heads,” a local fish species. Part of Joe’s ashes will be spread in Bear Creek, a place he held close to his heart, and part will be placed with his parents at Wassum Cemetery in Marion, Virginia.

Joe’s curiosity extended beyond the ordinary. He loved watching shows like The X-Files and had a playful fascination with Bigfoot, aliens, and other mysteries of the universe. His love for the unusual was a testament to his boundless sense of wonder and his ability to find joy in life’s curiosities.

Above all, Joe was a devoted family man. He is survived by his son, Michael Bales, and grandson, Waylon Bales; his daughter, Kristen Bales, and son-in-law, Chris Sullivan; and Teresa Davis, the mother of Michael and Kristen. Joe also leaves behind his brother, Dan Bales, and sister-in-law, Nancy Bales; his sister, Brenda Farmer, and brother-in-law, Ervin Farmer; and a host of beloved nieces, nephews, and extended family members, including special great-nephew Sterling Mayne Farmer. He also leaves behind his connection to Ebenezer Lutheran Church in Marion, Virginia, where he was a longtime member.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Walter Robert and Gladys Surber Bales; his brothers, Ronald Bales and Edward Bales; and his nephew, Robb Farmer.

Joe’s love for animals was ever-present. He always had a dog or cat by his side, and he took pride in caring for his furry companions. His home was a place of laughter, warmth, and unconditional love—a reflection of the man he was.

A memorial service will be held, with details to be determined. Joe’s ashes will be in the places he loved most, including Bear Creek in Virginia and Wassum Cemetery in Marion, Virginia, where his spirit will forever be part of the landscapes he cherished.

Joseph “Joe” David Bales will be remembered for his unwavering work ethic, his love for family and friends, and his infectious joy for life. He leaves behind a legacy of laughter, kindness, and curiosity that will continue to inspire those who knew him.

Fraziers' Seaver Brown Funeral Service and Crematory, 237 East Main Street Marion, Virginia and Stith Funeral Home 318 West Broadstreet, Danville, Kentucky are honored to serve the Bales and Farmer Families.